It’s conference season, at least that’s how it seems. Between March and August there are quite a few writing conferences that are taking place, so now seemed liked a great time to offer a few helpful tips to make all your conferences fun and successful.
- Have business cards at the ready. They don’t need to be elaborate, just something simple with your name and contact information on it. You can make them yourself or get them printed inexpensively at places like GotPrint.com or VistaPrint.com.
- Dress professionally and comfortably. Consider wearing layers. There is no happy medium when it comes to temperature at many of these conference sites. The best thing you can do is to have layers so that you’ll always be able to make yourself comfortable.
- Don’t be afraid to mingle and make connections, but be sure to pay attention to social cues. You don’t want to accidentally cut in on an important discussion.
- Even if you aren’t taking an editor/agent appointment have a pitch for your current work in progress ready to go. You never know whom you’ll wind up chatting with and what can come from that interaction. Remember editors and agents are people too. I know that sounds crazy, but it’s true.
- Be mindful of your alcohol consumption.
- Most importantly, enjoy yourself and let your creative juices be replenished by interacting with other writers.
Navigating your way around the conference is only part of the adventure. Here are a few tips to help you stay safe en route to the conference and while staying in the event hotel.
- If possible travel with at least one travel companion.
- Never tell anyone that you are traveling alone. If someone persistently asks, don’t hesitate to lie.
- If attending a conference do not wear your name badge when you leave the event hotel.
- Wear minimal jewelry. Lots of expensive and flashy jewelry makes you an easier target for predators. Also, consider using disposable cameras instead of bringing your digital camera. Expensive cameras are popular targets for thieves.
- Never open up your door to any stranger and use all the locks on the door while in room.
- Don’t open the door just because someone says security or maintenance. Get the employee’s name and call the front desk to confirm before opening the door.
- Avoid giving out your room number to anyone you meet in the bar or the trip.
- Avoid leaving jewelry or credit cards in the room. Thieved don’t need the actual card, just the number and security code.
- Lock your baggage if possible. (Airline locks are fine)
- Avoid the scam this is the front desk calling please update your credit card information.
- Never leave the plastic keys when you checkout. They can contain personal information.
- If possible request a room closest to the elevators, more foot traffic, less secluded, more opportunity for crook to be seen
- Try to avoid a room above the 10th floor; fire equipment usually does not reach that high.
- Avoid going out alone at night and as always TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS!!
If you’ll be at the Liberty States Fiction Writers Conference in March I look forward to seeing you there. Whatever conferences you may be attending stay safe and have a great time.
~Rayna
I took a friend’s advice this weekend and checked out the new Syfy channel series Lost Girl. I’m really enjoying the story. The main character is Bo. She’s a succubus, although she doesn’t know what she is at the start. All she knows is that she not an ordinary human, everyone who sleeps with her dies. She’s drawn into the world of the fae, which consists of all manner of mythological creatures. The fae world is split into two factions, dark and light. All fae belong to one clan or the other, but Bo is unique in that she was hidden from the fae world as a child and thus belongs to neither faction. That’s part of what makes her unique, she is living between the clans, she’s claimed neither light nor dark as her own as she works to solve the mystery of her past.



There is nothing more annoying then a weak and whiney heroine. You know the ones who do nothing but scream and wait to be rescued. Think Willie in Indiana Jones and The Temple of Doom. All she did was scream and whine for the majority of the movie. At times, I was rooting for the bad guys to get her just to shut her up. On the other hand, I think we can all agree that kick-butt heroines are fun. Wonder Woman, the inspiration for mine and Melinda’s story, Amazon Heat, was one tough cookie well before it was cool for female characters to be so. She was smart, sexy, and always took down the bad guys using her lasso of truth and wearing her high-heeled boots. Still, I think there is room in the pool for a heroine that falls somewhere between the two.






