Personal Safety Review

I write romantic suspense, books where my heroines are always targeted by someone with malicious intent. Here at Attacking the Page, we’ve done a number of blogs on personal safety, but we haven’t posted some of this information in a while. There are detailed posts in our archives, but I’ve listed some quick tips below to start you thinking about what you can do to stay safe.

  1. Be a hard target – pay attention to your surroundings. Avoid talking on your cell, texting, and/or wearing headphones when you should be aware, i.e. running or walking across a parking lot.
  2. Park close to buildings, in well-lit areas. Pay special attention if the vehicle next to yours is occupied or if a van or other vehicle you can’t see into is parked next to yours.
  3. People principle – stay with a group for safety, or if you’re in trouble, seek people out. Isolation makes you more vulnerable. Don’t run or walk alone.
  4. Carry a cell phone and keep it charged.
  5. Protect your personal space – if someone makes you uncomfortable, let him know his behavior is unacceptable. He may be “feeling you out” to see if you’re an easy target.
  6. Take a self-defense class. They’ll teach you even more ways to stay safe. Plus, Bureau of Justice statistics show that 50% of attackers will break off the attack if the woman indicates she will fight back. If she goes with her attacker to a secondary location, 90% of the time, she isn’t coming back.
  7. If you’re a woman alone, you can’t always be a Good Samaritan. Don’t stop for someone who appears to be having car trouble. Instead use your cell phone to call the police and report their situation. Notorious serial killer Ted Bundy took advantage of women who wanted to help others. One of his best ploys was to feign injury and ask for nice young women for help.
  8. When out with girlfriends, make a pact to go together and stay together. Honor that pact. Do not let a friend leave the group. Date rape drugs are easy to get, tasteless, odorless, and becoming increasingly more common. Only drink beverages that you opened yourself or watched the bartender pour. Do not accept drinks from strangers and take a friend to the hospital if you suspect she has been drugged. Date rape drugs can be made at home from drain cleaner. Any guy who gives them to a woman doesn’t care if she is alive or dead when he rapes her.
  9. Whistles, personal alarms and pepper spray make good sense. Panic can make some people unable to scream.
  10. When booking a hotel, use initials or Mr. & Mrs. Do not give anyone your room number. Do not stay in a room without a peep hole and security bar. Don’t take anyone’s word that they are a hotel employee. Call the desk and check before opening the door.

This list is by no means comprehensive, but it should get you thinking. Your brain is the most important weapon at your disposal. Above all, trust your instincts. If you feel like someone is a problem, he likely is. If a situation is making you uncomfortable, get out of it. This feeling isn’t your imagination. It’s your primitive survival instinct kicking in. I would much rather feel silly asking a security guard to escort me to my car than be attacked in the parking lot.

Stay safe!

Who Remembers Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman?

I’m always thinking about kick butt heroines. So, today I’m taking you on a trip down memory lane.  Here’s a bit of nostalgia for those old enough to remember it. If you never seen Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman <gasp>, watch the clip. She was truly awesome.

This clip stirred some warm and fuzzy memories from my childhood.  Lynda Carter in her role as Wonder Woman was part of the inspiration for Amazon Heat.  Got to love a gal who can toss cars in hot shorts, a bustier and bright red go-go boots. Unlike the darkness in a lot of current day super-hero movies, the Wonder Woman series from the 1970s was pure fun.

Is anyone else having nostalgia pangs?  Or, if you’re not old enough to have watched the series, what do you think of the clip?

LSF Writers Conference Readers Event

What makes a great readers’ event? This year Liberty States Fiction Writers is expanding their conference to include panels and activities geared toward readers. Our hope is to create a setting where readers and writers can meet, mingle, and have a great time together. I’ve been to a couple of these events and have really enjoyed them. I’ve loved meeting other people who love to read just as much as I do. There’s nothing more fun then finding  someone with the same tastes in books as you. As a writer, it’s thrilling to meet people who are enthusiastic about your books.

In trying to put an event of this nature together we started by getting a great Keynote Speaker. We’re really looking forward to having Larissa Ione join us. From what I observed at other events that was not enough, so my next step was to create a collection of fun and engaging panels where readers could pick writers brains and learn more about their creative process.

Next we invited Lady Jane’s Salon to take part in our event.  We will serve coffee and dessert as we listen authors read from their own work. Plus we have a few other things cooking in regards to the Salon event so stay tuned for announcements. We also got a number of publishers to donate books and goodies so that every attendee will go home with a bag full of fun stuff.  Finally, we added a party so that writers and authors can dance the night away.

It should be a really fun event. If you’re interested in finding out more you can visit LSF Writers’ conference page for details.

Have you ever been to a reader’s event? What things did you like? What would you like to have seen done differently?

~Rayna

PS – Melinda and I are guest blogging and giving away copies of Amazon Heat on As the Pages Turn today and Bitten By Paranormal Romance tomorrow. We hope you’ll stop in and say hello.

Celebrate Amazon Heat’s Release With Us!

Today is a very exciting day for Melinda and I. Today our novella, Amazon Heat, releases from Carina Press. To celebrate, we’re having a release party with a giveaway of a $50 Amazon gift card at Bitten by Books. Please stop in an join us. The party officially starts at 1:00 PM EST but you can pop in on our RSVP page to get extra points towards winning the prize.

We couldn’t be more excited about the release of the first in our series. Let us share a bit about the book

2 years ago…

Driven by grief to find a cure for cancer, Elizabeth DeMarco left Logan Spencer to accept a position on a research expedition to the Amazon rainforest. Kidnapped by guerrillas, she was saved by a secret all-female civilization, the last of the ancient Amazons. But Elizabeth discovers she’s traded one form of captivity for another.

Today…

Logan never stopped searching for Elizabeth. While consulting in the remote Brazilian interior near where she was kidnapped, Logan suffers what should be a fatal fall. Near death, he’s collected by the Amazons and magically healed. Elizabeth is the first person he sees as he wakes.

But there’s no time for a joyful reunion. The Amazons’ mystical medicine is rapidly changing Logan. They want his DNA and plan to take it—and then kill him. Logan and Elizabeth must escape before dawn or Logan—and their second chance at happiness—is doomed.

Buy it at: Carina Press | Amazon | Barnes & Noble | All Romance EBooks.

It’s also available in audio through Audible.com. I just listened to the audio sample it sounds so awesome!

Celebrate with us every one. It’s an exciting day!

~Rayna

World’s Slowest Writer

Happy New Year!

Is it me or is time speeding up? Here we are five days into the new year, and I haven’t figured out my goals yet. Heck, I haven’t even reflected on last year’s goals. Maybe it’s better that way. Last year I had three goals and fell short of them all.

Time to try again…

My goal for 2012 is to start and finish writing a new novel. Since I’m a contender for World’s Slowest Writer, handing my agent a new book before year-end will not be easy. But I think I can speed up productivity if I plot more precisely than I have done in the past. If I spend more time on the story arc, the characters’ goals, motivation and conflict, and the turning points upfront, I should have less fixing and rewriting later on. It can’t hurt, right?

So I download a free trial of the writing program Scrivener. This program seems like a great way to organize my story and keep everything, including research, in one file. I’m still going through the tutorial, but so far it seems pretty good, as long as I can remember how to use all the functions. Perhaps I should sign up for Gwen’s Scrivener class in February.

Well, at least I have one goal to work toward. I still need to determine my karate goals and personal goals (Note to self: include get more sleep on personal goals list). What about you? Do you make goals or resolutions for the New Year? If you’re a writer, do you use writing software? Do you plot or write by the seat of your pants?

~KM Fawcett

Replay: Get a Kick out of Your Fight Scenes by Melinda Leigh

An oldie, but a goodie from year one of Attacking the Page:

We already reviewed how you can use fighting terminology to make your action scenes more interesting in the Add PUNCH to your Action Scenes post.  More specific words add power to your pages.  This week we’ll focus on kicking.

Kicks are stronger than punches because leg muscles are larger than those in the upper body.  In the Fight Like A Girl self-defense seminar, we teach women to use kicks, which engage the strongest part of her body, her legs, against her attacker’s weakest targets, which fall in a straight line from his nose to his groin.

Other styles of martial arts may have additional, less common kicks, but these are the basic kicks in kenpo karate.

Front snap kick – a quick kick that utilized the snapping of the knee joint for power. The toes are curled back and the ball of the foot is used as the weapon. Knees, groin and stomach are common targets.

Front thrust kick – a stronger kick using a forward thrust from the hip to add power. The weapon can be the ball of the foot, the entire sole of the foot or the heel, depending on position.

Roundhouse –  a turning kick with the rear leg. The fighter turns 180 degrees, using the top of her foot or shin bone as the weapon in a sweeping arc.  The roundhouse is a strong kick due to the torque created by the twisting of the fighter’s body (similar to a golf club or baseball bat swing), but has one big drawback. Since it has a wide arc, the opponent can see it coming.

Side kick – The fighter draws her knee to her chest and fires the kick outward, stomping her heel and/or blade of her foot on her attacker.  The sidekick is very strong due to the engagement of most of the major leg muscles.  Side kicks are debilitating just about anywhere, but I love the knees and ribs as targets.

Stomp – A variation of the side kick and just what it sounds like. You heroine can stomp on her opponent’s instep. If you like, she can scrape her shoe all the way down his shin on the way.

Hook kick – The foot is extended beyond the target. The lower leg is drawn back in a hamstring curl, striking with the heel of the foot. Not terribly powerful but very sneaky if executed properly.

Knee strikes are effective blows when your heroine is too close to fire off a kick. You all know the best target for knees is the groin. But consider knees strikes to the face or abdomen if your opponent is bent over.

The standard kicks above can be combined in a series. Each of these kicks can also be done while spinning and/or jumping as shown in many TV shows and action movies. For some awesome karate fight scenes, check out the Transporter 2. Jason Statham has a background in martial arts that enables him to performs his own fight scenes.  Although the usefulness of these fancy kicks in a real fight (as in not choreographed for film or TV) is questionable, they sure are fun to watch.

The Best Piece of Advice

anyone ever gave me came from the wise and experienced authors at Liberty States Fiction Writers. I’ve filed this advice in my brain right next to wear clean underwear in case I’m in an accident.

DO NOT ENGAGE

No, they weren’t talking about the thrusters on the Enterprise. They were referring to people who review your books. Goodreads, Amazon, professional bloggers, whatever. I was reminded of this for two reasons. One, my debut book, She Can Run, has garnered enough reviews now to have a few unfavorable ones. Two, I read a post on a loop recently from an author who contacted a reviewer to complain about a review. An ugly back-and-forth ensured. Which was exactly what I’d been warned would happen by those wise and experienced authors.

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Liberty States Fiction Writers for saving ME this embarrassment.

This was the precious advice I received. It doesn’t matter if the reviewer has valid points about your book, is just being mean, wants to prove to the world he’s smarter than you, says things that aren’t true, or is flat-out insulting. None of that matters. No good can come of a writer complaining about a review. You will look like you can’t take criticism. You will look unprofessional. You will will look like a whiny bitch. Worst of all, you will draw even more attention to the review.

I’d tell you not to read reviews, but we all know that’s harder to do than it sounds. Writers are insecure. We MUST know what everyone thinks of our babies- er -books. Plus, reviews are as addictive as potato chips. You can’t stop after just one. But the next time someone posts a terrible review about your book, call a good friend and get all the complaining out of your system (sorry, Rayna!) Shut off the computer, go to the gym, and work off your frustration there. Not everyone will like your book. Just get over that now and move on. But above all,

DO NOT ENGAGE.

Does anyone else have a priceless piece of advice from a fellow writer that you’d like to share?

Is Editing Important?

My husband and I had a disturbing (to me) conversation. The subject was self-published books and the failure of some authors to edit their work.

Don’t freak. I’m not against self-publishing.

I’ve downloaded self-published books and found some excellent reads. But I’ve also paid $0.99 and felt like I’ve been totally ripped off. Some authors take care to have their work professionally edited or at least proofread by someone competent in grammar, spelling, and punctuation before asking people to pay money to read it. Others don’t even seem to know how to use spell check.

As an OCD-ish writer, I’m appalled at the latter type. I’m not talking about a couple of typos or some formatting issues, but numerous grammatical issues on every page.

Had they never heard of the Chicago Manual of Style? The dictionary?

With the ease of self-publishing, it feels like the slush pile has moved from the agent or editor’s desk to the internet. It’s now the consumer’s job to determine which books are worth of their time and money. Before I download a self-pubbed ebook (even a free one), I check out the sample pages to see what’s what. But I don’t do this very often for the same reason I don’t shop at Nordstrom Rack. I don’t have the time to sort through the rubble to find the gems.

I can read through the occasional typo. This blog post may have a typo or two. Typos even find their way into fully edited, traditionally published books, but I find a plethora of errors distracting and annoying. Most word processing programs do a decent job of proofreading automatically. Not bothering to use these functions is plain lazy.

But let me get to the part that disturbed me, my husband’s assertion that most people don’t care about any of these errors. I’m picky because I’m a writer. The average reader just wants to know what happens in the story and routinely skims through sentences, paragraphs, sometimes whole pages.

Anyone else feeling nauseous at this point? I’m agonizing over every word that goes onto the page and readers really just want an outline of what happens? Is this true?

Help me out here. Readers, do you care about spelling, grammar, etc.? Does it affect your enjoyment of the book? Writers, what do you think? I’d really love to hear from some self-published authors on this, too.

Does grammar matter or has it gone the way of hand-written letters and perfect penmanship? Are spelling and punctuation irrelevant?

The Mistletoe Madness Giveaway Winner is

A huge thank you to everyone who stopping by Attacking the Page and left comments during this past weeks Mistletoe Madness Blog Hop.  It was great fun reading about everyone’s favorite movies and traditions. The winner of a signed copy of She Can Run by ATP’s own Melinda Leigh as well as a collection of fun swag from our other books is Renee Bennett. Congratulations! We hope you’ll enjoy all of your goodies.

Click here for information about the winner of the Color Nook.

Thank you again everyone.

Safe and Happy Holidays!

~Rayna

It’s Just Not Christmas Without….

Everyone has their traditions, a collection of little things that make the holiday season perfect.  For me, it’s just not Christmas without a movie marathon. On Christmas day, while we’re opening presents and cooking dinner I’ll have my dvd player working overtime. Here’s are a few of the movies that will be entertaining me this year, in no particular order.

White Christmas – I love Bing Crosby, Danny Kaye, and Rosemary Clooney.  When I was younger I’d watch this movie over and over and sing along, but then I do that with every musical that I like.  I just love the soundtrack to this movie, it makes me happy.

 

Home Alone 1 & 2 – I just love these two movies. I think I’m partial to the second movie, Lost in New York.  The beat down that little Kevin gives the two imbecile villains in this one is a riot.

 

Scrooge – There are many versions of this story but I’m partial to the musical version starring Albert Finney. Yes, I sing along with this one too, folks.  Father Christmas, Father Christmas …

Muppet Christmas Carol – Who doesn’t love a movie full of muppets, music, and comedy? “Light the lamp, not the rat.” – Rizzo the Rat

 

Scrooged – Bill Murray, Bobcat Golthwaite, and the terrifically funny Carol Kane. It’s such a fun, modern day version of the story.

Last, but certainly not least

Mickey’s Christmas Carol (Anyone sensing a pattern? LOL!) – I just love the A Christmas Carol story in all of it’s variations. Because I’m a rabid Disney fan, this had to be on my list of to watch movies as well. Scrooge McDuck is the perfect Ebeneezer Scrooge. Plus this is always played in conjunction with one of my favorite Goofy cartoon where he’s learning to ski.

So, what’s on your It’s Just Not Christmas Without… list?

Respond to the above question for a chance to win a signed copy of She Can Run by our own Melinda Leigh plus swag from my release The Demon He Knows and our joint release Amazon Heat (coming Jan. 9th).

Contest is open to U.S. residents only and closes at midnight on Dec 23rd.
Attacking the Page is just one of many stops on the Mistletoe Madness blog Hop. All of the sites in this hop will be running contests between Dec 16 – 23.  One participant will win a Color Nook loaded with a library of eBooks. Click here for details on how to enter the drawing for the Nook as well as to view the list of other participating blogs.